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Jane's avatar

Thinking of you always. So many triggers for you. Keep walking forward and keep progressing!

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ICI Grief (The Rebel's Hike)'s avatar

Thank you. I feel like I definitely have more what I have now found out are "glimmers" than "triggers." Glad your trip was so wonderful and you are doing well.

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Sharon Johnson's avatar

Did you talk about this with your counselor? I’m really not sure what to say. I know from past experience, it has felt good to let go of anger. My sister and I were not in a good place, at one time, actually it was right after the death of my mother. However circumstances were nothing like you have been through, so it is hard to compare. Thinking of you always ❤️

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ICI Grief (The Rebel's Hike)'s avatar

At the beginning yes, and she gave me no pressure to feel like I needed to keep the relationships. I haven't been angry because I did let it go, and I'm actually still not angry, but I am perplexed of the purpose if there is/was no note. However, due to what happened, I would not want the gift stabbing my heart more every time I saw it. All estrangements are hard and yours is no less than mine, Sharon. I'm looking forward to spending time together next month. I'll get you some dates pretty soon.

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