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My 19 year old son, Tim, died on January 31, 2020. So this year will be his third anniversary RIP. Every year this time is hard. This is the month just before he made a fatal decision and this is the month where I seem to annually relive the "if only's". The other hardest time is his birthday- April 20.

Reading your accounts, I was reminded of when the funeral director brought in a shopping bag labeled with his name and filled with containers for each family member of Tim's ashes. It was sooo final. I still have his ashes. Have not decided what to do with them.

I subscribed after reading your comment at C&C.

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Gigi- thinking of you and praying for your peace, comfort, and strength today. I've spent time recently imagining Morgan in heaven and it really helps. Tim is flying high, surrounded by God and beauty so great, words can't describe. One day you'll be together again.

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Gigi I am so sorry that you lost Tim. This is a terrible "club" to be in. I hope you had and still have wonderful people around you. I hope you come up with a good place for his ashes. Any idea what he would want? We know what we will do with her ashes when the time is right to do it. It's very strange that they are in a box right now. I try not to think about it. Thank you for subscribing.

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I love you Joan💕😢

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I love you, too, Jill.

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Oops I said it twice.

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